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“ Everything Happens For A Reason ”
Sometimes people come into your life and you know right away that they were meant to be there, they serve some sort of purpose, teach you a lesson or help figure out who you are or who you want to become.
You never know who these people may be; your roommate, your neighbor, professor, long lost friend, lover or even a complete stranger who, when you lock eyes with them, you know that very moment that they will affect your life in some profound way.
And sometimes things happen to you and at the time they seem horrible, painful and unfair, but in reflection you realize that without overcoming those obstacles you would never have realized your potential, strength, will power of heart.
Everything happens for a reason. Nothing happens by chance or by means of good or bad luck. Illness, injury, love, lost moments or true greatness and sheer stupidity all occur to test the limits of the soul.
Without these small tests, if they be events, illnesses or relationships, life would be like a smooth paved, straight, flat road to nowhere. Safe and comfortable but dull and utterly pointless.
The people you meet who affect your life and successes and downfalls you experience, they are the ones who create who you are. Even the bad experience can be learned from... Those lessons are the hardest and probably the most important ones.
If someone hurts you, betrays you, or breaks your heart... forgive them, for they have helped you learn about trust and the importance of being cautious to whom you open your heart.
If someone loves you, love them back unconditionally, not only because they love you, but because they are teaching you to love and opening your heart and eyes to things you would have never seen or felt without them.
Make every day count. Appreciate every moment and take from it everything that you possibly can, for you may never be able to experience it again. Talk to people you have never talked to before, and actually listen, let yourself fall in love, break free and set your sights high. You can make of your life anything you wish. Create your own life and then go out and live it.
If I Knew It would be the last time
that I'd see you fall asleep,
I would tuck you in more tightly
and pray the Lord , your soul to keep.
If I knew it would be the last time
that I see you walk out the door,
I would give you a hug and kiss
and call you back for one more.
If I knew this would be the last time
I'd hear your voice lifted up in praise,
I would video tape cach action and word,
so I could play them back day after day.
If I knew it would be the last time,
I could spare an extra minute or two
to stop and say " l love you, "
instead of assuming you would KNOW i do.
If I knew it would be the last time,
I would be there to share your day,
well , i'm sure you'll have so many more,
so I can let just this one slip away.
For surely there's always tomorrow
to make up for an oversight,
and we always get a second chance
to make everything right.
There will always be another day
to say our " I love you's ",
and certainly there's another chance
to say our " Anything I can do's ? "
But just in case I might be wrong,
and today is all I get,
I'd like to say how much I love you
and I hope we never forget.
Tomorrow is not promised to anyone,
young or old alike,
and today may be the last chance
you get to hold your loved one tight.
So if tomorrow, why not do it today?
For if tomorrow never comes,
you'll surely regret the day
that you didn't take the extra time
for a smile, a hug, or a kiss,
and you were too busy to grant someone,
what turned out to be their one last wish.
So hold your loved ones close today,
whisper in their ear,
tell them how much you love them
and that you'll always hold them dear.
Take time to say "I'm sorry" , " please forgive me" ,
"thank you" or "it's okay".
And if tomorrow never comes,
you'll have no regrets about today.
THAT'S LOVE
If you love some one because you think that shouldn't leave him because others think that you shouldn't ... then it's not love.. it's "COMPROMISE"
If you love some one because you have been kissed by him ... then it's not love.. it's "INFERIORITY COMPLEX"
Iy you love some one because you cannot leave him thinking that it would hurt his feelings .. then it's not love .. it's "CHARITY"
If you love some one because you share every thing with him... then it's not love... it's "FRIENDSHIP"
BUT... If you feel the pain of the other person more than him even when he is stable and you cry for him ... that's "LOVE"
If you get attracted to other people but stay with him without any regrets... that's 'LOVE'
If you let him go knowing that he has to go but he doesn't want to ... that's 'LOVE"
" UNDERSTANDING OF LOVE "
Love is sweet , Love is kind
It isn't just a piece of mind
Love is something you need to give
Something that we share and believe
Love doesn't mind you
To cry a tear or two
But true love isn't sad
It's never bad.
Love is unique
Something like an antique
When it's broken
It seems to be forsaken
But then someone comes and see the gold
All that's scattered now is whole to hold.
What is love , you ask
Well , it's something that can never be fully described
It's different to everyone
And it's really up to you to decide.
Love is powerful yet can be weak
Something that everyone seems to seek
Love is mindful and understanding
When everything falls
It'll be the last one standing
Though it seems like a small matter
Never judge emotion by its size
Understand what love is
You'll see what a world there is.
" Relationship "
In your life , have you ever met someone who can be also your friend and your special one? It's so hard to find tow in one - if you have a bf / gf , you might have to lose your friend , and reversely if your friend , you may also lose your lover.
This world is not balance as you think ; everything has their pros and cons.
Consequently , if you meet someone who will be the right person for you , treath her / him with your best or you'll lose her / him.
What is the friendship?
How to know if you have a good relationship with her or him?
Think of the day you both are angry each other , what did you feel?
1. Be angry , and thought that this is the end of our reletionship! or
2. Be sad , and sorry for what you did to her / him , and no matter who is wrong or right , you still regret for your bad words and find a chance to talk to her / him again.
If you choose number 2 , congrautulation! You"ve met the right person for you because you'll feel with him or her in the good way even you just have a quarrel with her / him.
Keep going on with your good relationship , no matter what your relationship is boyfriend / girlfriend / or only friend. At least you can smile everytimes you look back , you still have a person to think of and dream of tonight.